I want peace and not pieces....

An incident happened not more than a week ago made my mind circling around one thing that why educated people fight & if at all they do so then are they really educate?
Let me tell you there are no exceptions to this. Each & every person must have had fight with someone or else at least once in his lifetime...
Every person involved in fight has his own side & one expects that others should consider his/her view and should look at the situation from ones perspective but at the same time forgets that there is an other side of a coin too. Regardless of who is right & who is wrong everyone deserve a chance to put forward their side & at the same time one should learn to listen to others. Not many people are good listeners. Everyone just jumps to a conclusion. A simple miss understanding breaks age old friendships. At that moment one completely over shadows all good time he/she has spent with other person. If one can learn to listen others before making any statements then half of the fights can be avoided .
In short such tense situations can be avoided if at lest one of the two parties have rational view towards other. Many times it is observed that in a fight if one raises the voice then he/she can be stopped only by lowering our voice to very low level so that it is barely audible. This way we can certainly avoid threshold point which ultimately cools down the tempt atmosphere.

But there is an other side for this too.

Some people really like to keep mum even if they strongly disagree with something. Sometimes this can be very dangerous. If at some point of time there threshold is reached then everything comes out as volcano and end is unpleasant. This represents perfect example of No-Communication.
The better alternative could be Miss-Communication, meaning when you fight with someone you at least get to know about each others point of view. that one can judge himself. That really helps in Self analysing. Thus it is always said that Miss communication is better than No communication.